

Our Method
A lot of what I write is due to a question. Yesterday someone asked me, “What have you written that explains how you respond to the...


Shame
“Jesus won’t love you if you do that.” Just about everything with that statement is wrong. To write it down makes my blood boil. But I...


I Believe in Character
In a media age, charisma sells. It is not so much what you say, but how you say it. Video is powerful. Sadly, anger and cynicism also...


The Failing Church?
Why is the American church failing in its mission? First of all, it is not failing in all areas. In places hit by hurricanes, the...


Clinging To ...
“I hate the work of those who fall away: it shall not cling to me” (NKJV, Psalm 101:3b). There is a group of people who see themselves as...


Ego
It amazes me that after all these years of walking with God, even minor criticisms can still trigger my insecurity. Yes, I‘ve grown up. ...


God Comes to Those Who Make Room for Him
”Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears My voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and dine with him, and he with...


Wounded? Or Just Hurting?
There is true wounding—the kind of thing that brings long term harm to a person. There is perceived pain. Sometimes, a person bringing...


Demandingness
True bullies are intimidators. They use some kind of force or the threat of pain to dominate another person. They seemingly take away...


Bullying: A Starting Point
We’ve come to a point where bullying is in the eye of the beholder. There is true bullying where one person intimidates or dominates...